In Memory of Parker and Haley ::: 6-29-09

Crystal and Craig,
wow, this video is so precious..your kids are so precious. i never go a second withouth thinking of your family and what you are going thru. I pray constantly for you as well as so many others. i couldnt hold back the tears when i watched this, but they were not all sad tears. yes, we are all greiving the loss of Haley and Parker but we are thankful that you and Crystal are still hear to touch every life that God brings you into. haley and parker are looking down at us from heaven, having a party with jesus! Everyone is still praying for y’all and always will because you guys never failed to be there for us so now, its our turn to be here for you.
Much Love,
emily greco.

I am 11 years old and this has made me cherish every moment of my life since. I am so sorry for your loss and will always be. I know your lives had just begun with these two little angels that God put on earth for you, but God put earth in motion for a reason and things happen for reasons that we are just not sure of. Haley and Parker were very loving children from our small meetings here and there. I know that Haley and Parker will always be in your hearts and in everybodys that layed eyes on these two children.

Craig,

What an awesome tribute! I could barely see all the pictures through my tears. My heart aches for you both. I am confident that you both will get through this because of your faith in God our Father, although there is a long road ahead. We are here when you need us. Parker and Haley, you are loved and missed by so many!! Watch over mommy and daddy and keep them safe, okay?!

Praying for you,
Tara Bolton

BEAUTIFUL ANGELS!

My love, thoughts and prayers are with you all. – Mary Hanna

Craig,
That was such a beautiful tribute to Haley and Parker. I know you put your whole heart into it. They were so beautiful and full of life!

My heart aches for Crystal and you! Please know you are both in our prayers.

In Him,
Amanda

Craig this is a beautiful tribute! You and Crystal are very loved and being prayed for every minute of every day! Parker and Haley are true gifts from god and it’s evident the love your family shared!! They were certainly angels here on earth and will ALWAYS be in all of our hearts! Thank you for sharing these beautiful and sweet babies with us! I know the pain is unbearable! Please let Crystal know we are constantly saying prayers in her name! Love to you all!

Beautiful, Craig. Looking at Parker and Haley’s pictures brought a smile to my face. Love and hugs to you and Crystal.

With tears streaming down my face, I watched this beautiful tribute to your precious children. Thos two brought a smile to my face everytime I saw them and they will be greatly missed. What we lost here on earth in Haley and Parker was Heaven’s gain and I know without a doubt that they are looking down on you two with much love. Hold tight to the memoires you have of them. What a comfort to know that you will be reunited with them in God’s kingdom oneday.
I am praying for Crystals speedy recovery and that God all have his grace and peace reign over the two of you with each passing day.
I love you both and you are such an inspiration to me (even though you are Gamecock fans…..I know Parker would love to hear that…..he is after all and always will be my favorite Gamecock!!!!) Keep your strong faith and God will see you through this. You two are already such a testimony to others! With so much love,
Kim Mitchell

Hey Craig and Crystal,
I’m so sorry. It leaves me speachless.
Craig, this video is beautiful.
Crystal, we are still praying.

Love you guys,

Callie Goodwin

Your kids were so precious. They will be missed by us all. We love you both!

We think of you and pray for you and your family often. I pray that you will know the presence of our Lord all the days of your life.

My prayers are with you and yours. Please let me know if I can do anything for y’all. Your family is beautiful. I wish Crystal the best on her recovery.

Sharon

Craig, this is beautiful! You and Crystal are continually on our hearts and in our prayers.

Your family has been on my heart and in our prayers since we heard. May God give you peace and healing…

God bless you both! I cannot imagine your pain. You are in my thoughts and prayers constantly!

WOW – no words can express what a wonderful Tribute you have done for Parker and Haley – just wonderful! God Bless!

Craig and Crystal,
The montage is so precious. You can tell from the pictures that in the short time Parker and Haley were on this earth, they had great parents that loved them so much. You filled their lives with fun and memories. My heart is broken for the two of you. We pray for you everyday that Crystal heal physically and that God gives both of you peace. God Bless you both!

Love, Jennifer, Ethan and Jaden Hughes

Thanks for sharing that beautiful tribute to your children with me. You are right, they are precious babies. All my love to you and Crystal.

Many smiles and tears watching this sweet tribute. How blessed you are to have so many pictures to document their
sweet and much too short lives. Craig your gift shines. Parker’s brown eyes melt your heart and Haley’s dimples make you smile. There is much comfort in knowing they are together.

You don’t know me. After hearing your story, I was devastated and haven’t been able to stop thinking about your family. My kids (4.5 and 3) and I have included you in ours prayers every night.

Having never met you guys, it’s odd to say that your children have given me a gift. Realizing how precious life is, I started a “mom blog” yesterday to capture the memories that I’m scared I’ll forget. You’ve done that with pictures here, and it’s an absolutely beautiful tribute.

We are praying for you all.

I have been praying for your family since Monday…I’ve shared your story with friends all over the world and they are all praying too. My church had special prayer for you Wednesday night. My heart goes to you and your family. Sending much love and prayers,

Kim

What a terrible tragedy. Two precious angels. I hope the family is able to stay strong and know they now have two guardian angels watching over them. My heart, prayers, and thoughts go out to them!

Craig and Crystal,
I was so saddened to hear the news about your two precious children. I have been praying for you both as well as your whole family since the accident. This is such a tragedy and I pray that with the strength and faith of the Lord you will eventually heal from this. I know you will never heal completely but I pray it gets much easier for you to deal with. I enjoyed watching their photo video and know that you two could not have had any more precious and beautiful children. They both were VERY BEAUTIFUL children. You can tell from the photos what two incredible parents you were. I know they will be truly missed by a lot of people. Craig we miss you coming around the Florence Branch of SCU but I hope you are happy with your new job. If you two are ever coming through Florence headed to the beach sometime stop by the branch to say hi. Let us know if we can do anything for you. I will continue to pray for you and your family. May God Bless you both.

With Many Thoughts and Prayers,
Tammie
SC State Credit Union-Florence Branch Employee

Parker & Haley,

What beautiful, precious innocent children you are. In these past days, I’ve wondered and questioned over and over again to myself why God chose to take you so young. You no doubt had a bright and wonderful future ahead of you – exploring and learning about life and love. It’s easy for me to forget that you are experiencing so much more than that right now in Heaven. I have all the faith in the world that what Heaven has to offer is so much more than you would have ever found here on earth. Still, it’s painful to know how much you will be missed by those who loved you most, namely, your Mom, Crystal and your Dad, Craig. I never actually got to meet either of you but it is more than apparent how deeply your Mom and Dad loved and continue to love you. You will never be forgotten by them or by anyone whose lives you touched – even though you may not know it. You have already taught me an invaluable lesson and for that, my life is changed and it is because of you.

You both would be so proud of your Mom, as I’m sure you already know. She has been fighting every day to get better and I understand that her surgery went well and every day she is making progress. Your dad, also, has remained strong and stood beside her, unyielding in his faith and love for her and for you both. You would be so proud of them.

Please stay close to your Mom and Dad – for they will need you in these coming weeks, months and years. There will not be a day when you are not thought of by them and by countless others and everyone will eagerly await the day that they get to see you both again.

Until then, do not regret. Do not fear. Be happy and find joy in Heaven looking down upon those who will miss you every single day until you meet again. Beautiful Parker and Haley – continue to teach all of us how precious this life is and how important faith is to all who accept it.

Until then… Lindsay Valek

Beautiful. So sorry for your loss. You and your family are in our prayers. My heart breaks for you.~Diane Wessinger Bryant CBC

I am so sorry about your family… You are right we are only given as much as we can handle. My thoughts and prayers are you with you and your family.

I got this link from Nicole Cottom’s facebook.
Thank you for sharing….

My condolences on the loss of your babies. Jesus will carry you through this awful time.

We lift you up in our prayers and try to understand your hurt and
grief. We do not know how,except with the strength of God you
can get through this.
We love you with the love of God.
Leonard & Betty Proctor

Craig & Crystal, This is precious & beautiful tribute to Parker & Haley. Thank you for sharing these PRECIOUS MEMORIES. If I could I would take your pain from you. Know that I am praying for both of you, your family & friends.

Hugs,

Vicki (The Thompson Boys mom – Jason, Theress, Josh & Alice)

Craig, you and Crystal are in my thoughts and prayers. You all attended high school with my sister Alicia and I always remember how much fun of a guy you were. Remember how your children lived not how they were taken from you. No matter how diffcult, please know that God makes no mistakes and everything is done for the glory of God. May He continue to watch over and keep you as you continue to heal your body and your hearts.

There are so many days in our lives we take our children for granted and we find our patience levels running on fumes…yet we never stop and think that so quickly our lives can be altered and our hearts taken and broken.

Words can never express how much we feel for you as parents. We can never understand the depth of pain you feel but only pray for your healing both physically and emotionally.

The hurt never goes away from the loss of those we love. We just slowly learn to live with the pain day by day. We pray for you both and find strength in your solid relationship with God.

….there are no words, so so sorry for your loss : ( truly absolutely beautiful children….my eyes are swelled and my heart aches for you and your family….you are in my prayers. God Bless.

Such a beautiful tribute to your kids. I didn’t know you but am friends with Hope Jeffcoat who shared this with me. I am so sorry for your lose. They were so beautiful and thank GOD they have each other and HIM.

im soooo sorry about your loss….i wish you the best and your family is in my familys prayers

so sorry to hear of your loss – we’re in the Upstate – praying for you guys today

When you look at your children’s faces, you can tell they were angels sent from God. They are absolutely precious and beautiful. The love you feel for them is pouring out of these pictures. You and your wife are in my prayers.

You and your family will be in my prayers. You lost your two loves, Heaven gained two beautiful angels. I know you don’t even know me, I found out about this by someone posting the story on Flickr…but my heart aches for you. What a beautiful tribute to your sweet children, I know they love it and they love you and are watching over you in Heaven.
In Christ’s love,
Becky Breedlove
Virginia Beach, VA

A beautiful tribute to two beautiful babies. We have never met. I heard of your recent tragedy through your friend Tim P. and it touched my heart. I pray that your love for God and each other will be strong enough to see you through the difficult times ahead and will bring you closer together.

It breaks my heart that your precious babies were taken from you, but I trust in God and know that one day you will all be together once again. Until that day, may He hold you both in the palm of His hand, comfort you and ease your pain..

With Deep and Sincere Condolences;

Richard A. Hall
Chairman, F.L.A.G.

Craig and Crystal – my heart is reaching out to you in prayer. Carol Melton – Virginia photographer.

My heart goes out to you and your family. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. You are not alone…there are many, many people praying for you. May God give you peace and hope in tomorrow.

Wow Craig… This is beautiful! I don’t know how anyone can watch this and keep a dry eye. You can tell how much you and Crystal love them and how much they loved each other! We have your family in my every thoughts and prayers. Cherish your memories and always keep them in your heart! Be strong and keep your head up! God bless you every day!!
Love~ Jill and Charlie

The pictures are beautiful. Thank you for sharing them with us. I know God is taking good care of these precious children and keeping them safe until you can all be together again. Lots of love for all of you…

Craig and Crystal,
I just want to say how sorry I am for your loss. I can not, would not want to know what you are going through. I know this is the hardest thing you have, and hopefully will ever have to go through. I only hope that after everything you will grow closer to one another and know that there trully is a reason for everything. I know it can’t be clear now but, hopefully one day it will be. If there is anything you two need please do not hesitate to ask. You guys take care of each other and please, don’t hesitate to ask for anything. You can reach me at 803.351.6983 or email. Really, I would be glad to do anything for you guys!!

What beautiful angels. May God give you the strength to pick up the pieces and know what HE has in store. You do not know me, but many of my friends know you, and b-4 I even knew that, when I saw the story on the news I cried. And I began to pray. I will continue to do so, you are prayed for.

Praise God for his faithful servants. The Hewitt Family has been such an overpowering witness and testimony for the strength that is within us through Jesus Christ. It’s only by his strength and grace that anyone could survive this emotionally and physically. I pray that through the overwhelming response to the Hewitt Family many will come to Christ and believe as they see the evidence laid before them. All to HIS glory and honor.

I am so very sad to hear about this. I will be praying for your family during this difficult time.

Craig, my heart weeps for you & your family. I feel like I can’t express my sadness for you without sounding trite. Your children are angels, so beautiful, so vibrant. I am deeply moved and my heart breaks for you. Many wishes for recovery for your beautiful wife and many wishes for healing and for grappling with this seemingly senseless tragedy. Marianne Drenthe, Illinois

Craig and Crystal, your family is in our constant thoughts and prayers as you go through this difficult time. It was great seeing the love of your family for each other and god through all these photos. We will continue to pray that God give you strength and comfort during this time. It has really taught us to make sure we enjoy every moment we have with our precious gifts from God also. Thanks for sharing and we will continue to pray for your family. Danny, Marianne, Drew, and McKenzie Smith

I am a fellow photographer in West Columbia. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. God will be with you. Trust in His word. Take comfort in knowing that your little angels are now in the arms of Jesus. It is not for us to understand His will. But is it His will. God be with you both.

In Christ,
Nancy Pilat-Renner

My heart goes out to your family. There are no words…. I’m just so so so very sorry for your loss. They are beautiful children. You will all be in my prayers.

Well didn’t know your names, until I found this websight, but I can tell you I have had you on my mind, since my husband called to check on me after hearing about your tragic loss. I have often thought of you (crystal) of how your healing physically, but most of all Emotionally. We were so blessed to find out you were BELIEVERS. I know its strange, but it brought such peace to us.After viewing your AMAZING gifts from God, I know they were truely blessed to have you both as parents. I hope and pray you will continue to reach out to him for healing. Know we are thinking and praying for you both. It is an awesome feeling knowing you have a christian family praying for you.
Love,
Greg and Shawna Criminger
Elgin, South Carolina

Craig and Crystal,
What a beautiful tribute to your angels! Ashlyn has watched the slideshow multiple times, referring to it as “Parker and Haley’s Movie.” We know that the emotions we experienced watching it cannot compare to the emotions that you experienced creating it. The two of you have an extraordinary will to push forward which is an motivation to so many people, including us. Thank you.
Love, Loren, Ashley, and Ashlyn

He is God, he is our protector, provider, full of Mercy and Grace! Peace be unto you……may he guide you and protect, his face shine upon you and be gracious unto you….thank you heavenly Father for Craig and Crystal’s love and witness for you.~~~~~Fredna Wessinger

Craig and Crystal My heart Goes out to you. And i am truley sorry about your lost. My thoughts and prayers goes out to you!

This is a beautiful memorial. My thoughts and PRAYERS are with you and your wife. I can’t even wrap my mind around what you are going through. Hold onto eachother…just as HE is holding onto your beautiful babies!

Bless you both….such perfectly beautiful little ones. I cannot imagine the pain you are dealing with. Our prayers are with you for a speedy physical recovery for Crystal, and continued strength in your faith to guide you both through the difficult times ahead.

so so so very sorry. words cannot express what you must be going through. please know photographers, designs and moms and dads on flickr, hundres of people are parying for you and your family.

we’ll miss you parker and haley bug!!
love you both!! :]

As others have said, my heart aches for your family. I am praying daily for you all. Although I have never met either of you, I grieve along side. Your children are gorgeous…definite gifts from God. May He comfort you and heal you.

Dear Hewitt Family, I have not have had the pleasure to meet your precious family but I wanted to say thank you so much for sharing the tribute of your beautiful angels. Their spirit lives on and will continue to live in in your memories as well as your beautiful pictures. Your family is in my daily prayers.

Kelli Stoddard
Chapin, SC

Craig and Crystal, every day my husband and I would see you walking these two precious children into Chapin Baptist. What a wonderful loving family you have and what an incredibly beautiful memorial to them. We know that your angels are protected in the loving arms of the Savior and we pray for healing for you and Crystal. Our hearts ache for you both. Wendy, Mike, Jared and Reece Bell

Thank you for sharing this beautiful tribute. Our tears, thoughts and prayers are with you.

Beautiful precious little gifts from God. Praying God will hold you in the palm of his hand through a more painful loss than anyone should ever have to endure.

I don’t know your family, but this story has touched my heart. This is such a wonderful tribute to your beautiful children. Your families story is told in these beautiful pictures. There is so much love in your family. I KNOW that your children lived a very rich, fulfilled and blessed life on this earth. God chose such wonderful people to take care of his children for their “time” here on earth. God doesn’t promise us our children, but for a “time.” I know that no words that anyone says at this time can take away your pain and sorrow. I don’t know what to say or what to pray. I do know that the will of God never takes you where the grace of God will not protect you. Precious ones, Crystal and Craig, please know that you are thought of every minute of every day by those in your community and many states away. Love and peace to both of you!

Crystal and Craig, I don’t know you but I felt compelled to send you a note to let you know you are on my heart and in my thoughts. I heard about you through friends Karen and Eric. I am the mother of two small children and haven’t been able to think of much else other than your loss. I am lifting you in love and light and hope that you find strength in your faith. Your children are beautiful. Thank you so much for sharing these photographs with the world. I will never forget you or your precious children.

Please know that many people are praying for Our Savior to give you both the strength to get through this time. I am up here in Michigan and an hour does not go by that I do not think of you all. Parker and Haley are being held by Jesus and smiling down on you. God Bless.

dear crystal & craig,

you have touched my heart deeply, throughout this tragic time. im very sorry for your loss and i know that you will miss them as well as everyone else. i think that you and crystal are great role models for everyone. i think that the kids are wathching after you and crystal every single moment and second of the day waiting for you in heaven. i’m sure they miss you as much and as you miss them but im glad that they are not in any pain and their not suffereing. i will always remeber them as playing and laughing like they always would do. they were beautiful little children. no one else in the whole universe would ever be able to have the great personality as they did. will all my love.
love:
-maddie bauknight-

Craig and Crystal, I do not know you or your family but my heart hurts just the same. Your children are beautiful angels!!!!May Gods love keep you and comfort you both during this time of grief. Our thoughts and prayers will continually go out to you both and we pray for healing and health to Crystal.

Reese Stone
New York

We are so sorry to hear about the loss of your precious children. Like many others have said, this video brought tears to my eyes. I can’t imagine what you are going through. Your family will be in our thoughts and prayers.

“…And in Your book were all written
The days that were ordained for me,
When as yet there was not one of them.” Psalm 139:16
My heart is broken for you all. Their little lives were complete, and I know God will continue their purpose in your lives. I am so sorry for the hurt you are enduring. I’m praying for your family.

Craig/Crystal – I am so sorry for your loss. I am Crystal’s cousin (my mom and Crystal’s mom are first cousins). I have you guys in my thoughts and prayers. As a parent myself, I cannot imagine what you guys are going through, but please know that the entire Cotton side of the family is with you. God doesn’t always make it known to us what HIS plans are, but it is comforting to know that Haley and Parker are beside Jesus looking after you two.

May your hearts be comforted in your Faith.
May your love illuminate the resonating beauty in life
(and yes, in death).
May your memories carry you through your hardships,
and your pained tears make way for healing smiles.

In less than six years, these photos illustrate,
you all experienced phenomenal joys.
Keep those blessings alive by celebrating your future too.

You are in my prayers.

I can not begin to imagine the pain you both are going through right now. I am not yet a father but from the short time I have gotten to know you Craig, I think I have an understanding of what it means to love your kids with all you have. This video is a testament to that love and I must say its one of the most heart felt things I have ever seen. As sad as the times may be, we are all only here for a short time in the grand scheme of things. Luckily for those who follow in Him, death is not the end but a joyous reunification with our Father in heaven. I strongly believe in this and I also believe that you two will one day find your kids waiting for you at the gates with the same smiles on their faces. May God continue to give you both strength until this joyous day and if there is anything you need I am only a phone call away.

Craig and Crystal, What a beautiful tribute! Those are two beautiful kids! I am praying for your family!

Thanks for sharing…they are precious angels! Please know, that you and your family continue to be in my thoughts and prayers! May your faith help heal your heart and strengthen you.

Craig & Crystal,
What a beautiful tribute story in pictures. GOD is truly a wonderful GOD and only he knows the reasons why. But, when we live our lives truly and completely for him he will bring about a totally fulfilling happiness only he can provide.
If we can be of anything to ya’ll don’t hesitate to let us know.
In our thoughts and prayers.

Absolutely Beautiful! What great pictures and even better memories! We are thinking of you guys!!!

Much Love,
Samantha, Steve, & Bronson

May God bless you both! As a father of three beautiful angels, my heart completely aches for you. Life is so fragile. I applaud your strong faith and pray desperately that God continues to heal Crystal and provides comfort to you both. One look at these responses confirms that you are surrounded by people who love and care for you. Allow them to take care of you at this time. There is no doubt that Parker and Haley are with Jesus and will live on here as well through you both. Again, God bless you.

Crystal and Craig- what beautiful pictures of your babies. My heart breaks for your family. I will continue to think of you both and keep you in my prayers. I am so very sorry for your loss. I pray that you two hold on to eachother and that in time your hearts will heal. I am so very sorry.

My heart aches for you and your family! I heard about your story from a facebook link. Please take comfort in knowing that your story will be used by God to touch so many lives as it has mine! God is good and He will provide the strength and comfort to you that will be needed to heal your heavy hearts! His power and strength is the only way you can get through this horrible nightmare. Thank you for sharing your beautiful children with us…as you watch your video tribute to them you can tell that they loved each other very much and were loved by you! I will be praying for you and your family as will everyone that hears your story. Tammie Jones Graniteville, SC

Parker – Sweet and kind; ever the perfect little Southern Gentleman. Haley: Witty and Courageous; the Princess of Adventure. Just the thought of them brings warmth and love to all their lives had touched. May God’s love provide comfort to Craig and Crystal during these hard times.

Craig and Crystal, I am so sorry for your loss. I have been praying for you both and will continue to pray. My prayers and thoughts go out to both of you. Please let me know if there is anything you need or anything I can do. GOD will get you through this. Keep your faith and trust and believe in him.

Love you both, Judy Barry @ State Credit Union

I do not know you and never had the wonderful opportunity to meet your children, but they have blessed my life. There is not a day that has went by that I haven’t cried out to God for your family, I pray that God will provide comfort thru these dark times. I pray that you and your wife will draw closer during this time and find strength within each other as you call out to God together. Your FAITH is AMAZING!!!! I pray that your faith continues to grow and God will guide you every day of your lives.

In Christ your comfort will come!!!

you don’t know me, but i have been praying for you and your loved ones to have strength through this horrific tragedy. your story has touched my soul profoundly, maybe because i don’t know how you’re doing it, being strong, except with God’s love and grace and care. you are ALREADY stronger than i could ever be in the same situation, and i don’t know what else i can do for you except to pray. and so i will continue to do that. God bless.

This is the most beautiful thing we have ever seen! we cried, laughed, then watched in awe 🙂 God be with you during this time, and thank you for posting this tribute. We are always praying for you guys

This is the most beautiful tribute I have ever seen. The Lord just received to beautiful Angels, and remember they will be beside you to get both of you thru this. I will be praying for you and Crystal during this tragic time. God Bless you and your family…

Craig Thanks for sharing the beautiful video of your precious children-Parker and Haley. Ever since I heard of your tragedy, my thoughts and prayers for you and Crystal have been constant. I live in Cedar Cove and whenever I pass by your neighborhood my heart aches for you. I pray for your family often asking God to wrap His loving arms around you both and for Him to comfort you and to give you strength during this difficult time.

You do not know us, we are friends of Kim Forney. Words cannot express how we felt when we watched this tribute to your two small angels. We wanted to let you know that you are in the prayers of many Missouri STCC families. We pray that God wraps his arms around you and continues to give you strength and endurance. Continue your walk with Jesus until the day that you see your children again in heaven. Prayers are also there for a quick and complete recovery for Crystal. God Bless you all! Dave, Tammy and Molly Zimmerly

Thanks Craig. Were there ever any doubts that Parker and Haley weren’t Angels!?! Of course not.

Craig- This is beautiful! What great pictures of such a loving brother and sister… My mom keeps saying how Parker always took care of Haley. It is so great to see that come through in these pictures.

Crystal and Craig

Our prayers go out to you and your wife. Your children are precious and we enjoyed the photos. I know that GOD has a bigger plan than any of us can ever imagine. You know that Parker and Haley are playing in Heaven and enjoying praising GOD. He loves those children and He loves the both of you. Do not ever forget that. He will not ever give you anything you and Crystal cannot handle. If we can ever do anything for you, please do not hesitate to ask. We will be praying for strength and comfort for your family. We love you!

Kyle and Sandy Garbart

I heard about your story on The Nest, an online community for newlyweds. Just wanted to let you know that another believing family is praying for you here in Hawaii. Your tribute to your children and family really touched me and it will be unforgettable. The trial that you both have faced has helped me to realize again how precious life is and how trivial my recent challenges are. Please know that you are prayed for and thought of. Aloha Ke Akua- God Bless You.

Craig, & Crystal~

I have a life long friend who lives in S.C. who herd about your tragedy from a friend of hers who knows you both. I do not know you but now that she has sent me an email with this link I will indeed be in prayer for you. I will also fwd her email to all those in my address book so that more and more people will be praying for you. Their is no greater pain in this life than to out live your children, I know this because my husband and I watched our 6 year old daughter go into the presence of our Lord after a life long battle with a chromosone disorder. We will be praying for our savior to comfort your hearts, as you greive over the passing of your sweet babies. Crystal we will also be praying for healing and strength for your body. Your husbands tribute to your children was absolutly beautiful, and I’m sure it was in a way it is helping him cope. Their will be hard days ahead, but their is hope and peace of mind in our savior Jesus Christ. Craig, thank you for sharing this video of your family, what a labor of love. It is very apparent from the photos that you and your wife love each other, and your children very much. I don’t know why God allows things like this to happen, but we must trust that he knows what he is doing and what is best for those of us who are left behind. God Bless you both…

Love in Christ,
Sharon

Craig, What an amazing display of love. Throughout the sldeshow there was a continuous thread of love , of two children who loved one another and two parents who adored them. thank you for sharing this with us. May God bring you comfort and joy as you remember them.

Dear Craig and Crystal:

Thank you for sharing your precious treasures from the Lord with me! I enjoyed them very much and am heartbroken that they were not with us on earth very long, but know they will be with us in our hearts forever. I know that they are dancing with Jesus now, and I pray that you both will let Jesus dance with you through this journey, for it is obvious you both have a love affair going with Him and each other. I pray you will let Him lead even when it hurts so bad, for then joy will come in the morning… God Keep you, and yes, Haley and Parker- I know you are playing up in Heaven enjoy, see you later!

Miss Kim

“So this is what it means to be held and how it feels when the sacred is torn from your life and you survive. This is what it is to be loved and to know that when everything fell we’d be held. ” These lyrics are all i hear when I think of your family. Your conviction to the lord in this time of tragedy is so awesome! Just hold steady and know that he is in control. He says he will never give you more than you can handle. I believe this to be true. Our family will continue to keep you in our prayers! May gods peace be with you.

I’m so very sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I can’t even imagine what you are going through, but God, family and friends will help you every step of the way. Your beautiful babies have their wings now and will be watching over you. God Bless you and keep you in his ever loving care. I will be thinking of you and praying for you in the days ahead.

I have never met you before nor do I know what happened to your precious babies, but I want to tell you how sorry I am of their loss. I looked at these pictures thru a link from a friend and have cried my eyes out. My heart goes out to you, your wife, and your whole family. I have a little boy and a little girl named Hayley too, and this just broke my heart. Please know that ya’ll r n my thoughts and prayers and thank u for sharing your pictures w/ all of us so that the ones who do not know you now know what a beautiful family you had and will continue to pray for you. God bless…..

Dear Craig and Crystal, i didnt know your family but i am so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your lovely family pictures and memories, your children are lovely angels and from watching this i make a decision to always show love to my family every day and not take things and family for granted any more. Thank you and i know that Parker and Haley are happy in the arms of Jesus. God our father won’t give you more than what he knows u can handle. Know today that you have saved a family by sharing your heart. May the Lord grant you the strength and courage to bear your loss.

We are sooo sorry. They are absolutely beautiful. We are thinking of you guys.

Craig, I just met you at work and was lucky enough to spend a day in class with you. In such a short time, your love for your wife and children and your faith in God were made very obvious. I found you to be an inspiration. My heart aches for you and your family and I pray that you can continue to find some comfort in God’s promises. Those beautiful children just made Heaven’s smile even bigger!!!

Craig and Crystal…you are in our prayers daily. Your beautiful children will be missed in the neighborhood. They were always together and now in the Heavenly Father’s arms, they will watch over all of us. We hope you both return home soon. We as neighbors will help you in any way possible. Lean on us and we can help brighten your days.

My thoughts go out to you and your family.

I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOST. YOU DID SUCH A BEAUTIFUL JOB ON ALL OF THOSE PICTURES,AND KNOW YOU ARE GLAD YOU HAVE EVERYONE AND THANK GOD FOR THEM. SUCH BEAUTIFUL CHILDEN,AND FAMILY. I KNOW NO ONE KNOWS WHAT YOU ARE GOING THROUGH, WE ARE PRAYING FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.

Craig and Crystal – much love and many prayers. Words are just not enough to share the love and the grace that God is and will continue to pour down on you guys. Much love for your families as well. May God cover you in HIS arms – in the cleft of the rock – as He promised.

Craig and Crystal, the Lord we serve never sleeps nor slumbers…your beautiful angels are in perfect peace. I am so thankful to God that you were able to share with the world the warmth and love you have for Parker and Haley. I am praying for total physical healing for Crystal and that you and your family will always be used in a mighthy way that will help others that have gone through such a tremendous loss. I know that through God, you will have peace that surpasses all understanding and will be comforted by His grace and mercy.
Rita Wilson (Love)/FCBSC

May God lift the pain in your hearts, may he wipe the tears in your eyes, may he be your shoulder to cry on, may he fill your hearts and minds with the precious memories that you made with your beautiful children during their lives. May you realize in time that the impact these children had on the world, though short, was way beyond what some accomplish in a 100 years. May you realize that the work they will be doing together in heaven way surpasses anything they could accomplish here on earth. May the thoughts of a wonderful God with his arms encircling your children be the peace you need to get you through. Hold strong to him and eachother during this trialing time in your lives. My prayers are with you, God Bless.

Beautiful. Absolutely beautiful. Beautiful children, beautiful photos. My heart, and thoughts, and prayers are with you.

Hay, i had um helped with Haley but not much with Parker, but they were very beauitful kids, and im sorry for the accident that happened..i hope you and Mrs. Crystal will be alright and still keep faith.

Dear Craig and Crystal,
Thank you for sharing the tribute of your beautiful chidren! I have been lifting up prayers for you two and your families ever since I heard of your tragedy.I am a sister-in-law to one of your cousins, Craig, and I have met your sweet Grandmother, Ms. Virginia. May God continue to give you His unyielding strength as you walk with Him. Crystal, I am praying for your complete recovery. I can tell you are both strong in your faith and I pray you will continue to grow in God’s wonderful grace. Parker and Haley were so fortunate to have such strong Christian parents and it shows how much all of you love each other in the video. Your little Angels are together with Jesus and will be waiting for one sweet day to be reuinted with both of you. What a joy it is to be assured of that! May God bless you and keep His arms firmly around you. Love in Christ, Ruth Crumpton

Our prayers are with you. I know your faith in God will help you make it through this. As parents, we understand the blessing of a child and we sympathize deeply with your loss. Just know that God has a plan for you and though this time is difficult, He will use it for His glory. The story of your children will reach millions of people. God will use their lives to touch the hearts of more people than you can imagine. Your children will always know you as they knew you on earth. They will be waiting for you at the gates of heaven, as will our daughter. Grieve because it is necessary, but rejoice in the plan that God has for your children. They will forever be examples of his innocence and glory. God Bless You.

I am so very sorry for your loss. I heard about your story through another photographer and instantly got tears in my eyes as soon as I heard about it. Something like this is one of my worst fears. You, your wife, family & friends are all in my prayers and thoughts. I can’t imagine how life can go on after such a loss, but I know God will lead you through and hold you up when you feel you can’t go further. God Bless.

I don’t know your family but I want you all to know you are in my prayers. Your faith is amazing! We don’t know what this life holds but we know where our eternity lies…and you will be with your precious children again one day. Just keep looking toward the Almighty God and he will give you strength.
Kim Mizell

Craig and Crystal, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. What a beautiful way to honor your angelic children in this slideshow. Tears streamed down my face! Thank you for sharing your story. Please know that your family is in my prayers and I wish Crystal a speedy recovery. Your beautiful angels are watching over you! I can only hope that the grief that you now bear is somewhat lessened by knowing it is shared by all who know and love you guys. With deepest sympathy,
Erin Taylor Berglind
(DFHS)

I am so sorry for your loss,may you both draw from each other strength and comfort, oh what lovely children a close and happy family, i am soo sorry for your loss craig and i pray for ur family..

Craig & Crystal, I just wanted to express my deepest condolences to the both of you! I know this is going to be a hard recovery for you both but God’s love will help you through!! You have two beautiful children who are now sitting in heaven as your guardian angels and they will never be forgotten! You both are in our prayers, as well as our hearts.

Dear Craig and Crystal,
Just as your precious children were… in a moment… in the twinkling of an eye… carried by Jesus to their eternal home, our 5 month old son was taken in his sleep to be with our Savior just six short years ago. What a privilege we had to parent these little ones, even for such a brief time. My life verse is now, “Whom have I in heaven but you? And earth has nothing I desire besides you. My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever.” Psalm 73:25-26

Though your hearts ache and the void is undeniable, we know that God is faithful beyond all comprehension and that “peace that passes all understanding” will be a daily reality in your lives. You are now on a journey to walk through your pain and loss and find all that Jesus intended for you during your short time on earth. We hear of your trust in Him, of your faith in His goodness. There are already lives being changed forever as a result of your faith! And one day soon… in a moment… in the twinkling of an eye… you also will be carried to heaven and be reunited with Parker and Haley. Your tears will be a distant memory and your loss will be forgotten. There is an especially poignant moment in the movie The Passion of the Christ, as Jesus is carrying His cross to Calvary. He stops and sees his mother, Mary. The anguish and desperation at the thought of losing her son is almost unbearable to witness. Jesus spoke these simple words, “Behold, I make all things new.” The cross and resurrection are our only hope in this sad, sorrowful, broken world. All will be made right. All will be as it should.

Our son is buried at Chapin Baptist Church cemetery. Perhaps you have walked by his grave. The verse we chose for his headstone reads, “Where, O death, is your victory? Where, O death, is your sting? Thanks be to God, who gives us victory over sin and death through our Lord Jesus Christ.” 1 Cor. 15

This separation is just for a moment…
Please know you are in countless prayers. We will be in contact to support you in any way we can.
In Christ alone,
Leslie (and Chad) Jones

Our family and friends are in constant prayer for you. Just know your children’s light have already shinned so bright on this earth that the light of Jesus will shine in others because of them. We will continue to lift you up and find comfort in the fact that Parker and Haley are together with Jesus who loves them more than we could ever imagine. Our love and support are with you always.

There are no words to console your grief. I am so sorry and wish you peace in knowing your children are with God. My heart goes out to your family.

I haven’t been able to comment until now. What you must be going through…I can’t imagine. Your children are beautiful and it looks like you all lived life big while they were here with you. You’re in my prayers.

The slide show was wonderful.I am so sorry for your lost. Our prayers are with you. You know that I know from experience that GOD will not put no more on you than you can bare. Keep praying for understanding and strength. I will pray for the same as I do for myself.

Your ex co-worker from SCU.
Cornelia Anderson

I am soory for you loss. I pray that God will give you peace and understanding. We can not ask WHY, just know we will see them again real soon. I will continue to pray for the both of you. The slide show was great. A true talent. You both have been truely blessed, and God will continue to Bless you though out your time on this earth. If you need anything don’t be shy, there are so many of us waiting to give you a hand. In Chirsts Love, Kristina, Little Mountain

Your family photos are amazing! And your children certainly are the most beautiful angels! Our loving prayers and support are with you!

My dear Father in heaven…I ask that you place your loving, caring and comforting hands around this family. We have been graced by this wonderful tribute of these special gifts of Parker and Haley to their parents,family and those who did and did not know them personally. Thank you for the blessings you have brought through their lives. May Crystal and Craig have your comfort and peace…In Jesus name…Amen

May GOD BLESS you both & your entire Family. Your children were gifts from above that you will always cherish because they will always be with you. Beautiful children & I cherish mine more & more each day.

I am currently a student nurse attending clinicals at MCG. I didn’t have the priviledge of meeting Crystal, but I was told about the horrible tradegy.-It truely touched my heart. Your family will be in my prayers! God Bless.

Craig and Crystal, our thoughts and prayers are with you. We can’t imagine what you two are going through – so heartbreaking but your faith is strong. God will give you two the strength to overcome this and grow, even more in your faith in Him. How glorious was this tribute Craig, you are an unbelievable talent. We pray that you are comforted and you find the peace that you need daily. Crystal, we pray for your speedy recovery and we ask God to keep you in His hands, holding you close. Your fellow Chapinites, Michael and Sonya Turner

I am so sorry about your loss of your two precious Gamecock babies. From all the pictures, I can tell that they knew they were loved. Praying that y’all would rest in the God of comfort. Lamentations 3:22-23-his mercies never come to an end. they are new every morning.

As one who has lost a child I know the pain you are going through and can only say how sorry I am for your loss. May God be with you and your family now and forever.

Craig & Crystal,
I LOOOOVE YOU GUYS! Craig that tribute was very touching to me and many others. I’m gonna miss Haley & Parker sooo much but i have faith that GOD is walking right beside you every step of the way. I am praying for you every minute of the day everytime your names come to my mind. You are both a HUGE BLESSING to the church your big bright welcoming smiles could light up a room and brighten anyones day! I thank GOD for all the times i had with Parker and Haley. You guys are soo strong and everyone is praying for you we all love you both!!

Parker and Haley, You are precious in His sight and you know that Jesus loves you!! I understand both of you shared your love of Jesus with others as well!! You are both absolutely beautiful children!! Love and happiness just shines in these
photos!! This is an awesome tribute to you and your Mom and Dad!!

my heart goes out to this couple. God is faithful! hold onto him and each other. love and prayers, shannon wildman

Craig & Crystal, I am friends with vicki Amick & she shared this link with me. This was a beautiful tribute to your family. I am a mother of 2 little boys ages 5 & 1 & I cannot even begin to imagine what you two must be going thru. I could barely see the pictures thru all my tears. I have been praying for you & Crystal that you will lean on the Lord during this time & He will give you the strength you will need to get thru this. I pray for Crystal’s strength to continue to recover. And I pray for everyone that knew your sweet little angels. My heart is truly breaking for you two. Try to be strong for one another. You will need eachother now more than you ever have before. PEACE BE WITH YOU ALWAYS!!! Jeanna (Torrence), Bryan, Hayden & Hunter Hall from Little Mountain

Craig you and Crystal have faith that puts most people’s to shame. I pray God’s deepest and richest blessings on you two right now and that you feel the peace that passes any of our understanding. If you need anything please do not hesitate to ask…I am a photog right down the road. You are inspiration to people you don’t even know…thank you!

I do not know you, but watching the tribute has shown me the love that you and your wife have for Parker and Haley. We will pray for you and your family. God Bless You and thank you for sharing your beautiful angels with us!

Our hearts are so full of sadness for you and your family. What beautiful children! We pray God will bring you comfort through all your sweet memories.

Craig and Crystal. Even we have never met, we are your brother and sister in Christ. My daughter Karla Fischabach worked with your mother Trish Stevens. I know that she has been very supportive to my daughter in times of stress and has been praying for her. I want to thank you Ms. Stevens for being there for my daughter and I send you my deepest sympathy for your loss. I pray that both of you, Ms. Stevens and the rest of your family will be able to have the peace that surpasses all understanding and which only comes from our Lord Jesus Christ. Being a mother myself, I was so saddened by your loss and seeing your beautiful children and family brought tears to my eyes. Our heart goes out to you and your family. I pray that our Lord Jesus carries you through these very difficult times. May God confort you always, Love in Christ. Jeff and Alma

Craig & Crystal – It’s so hard to even grasp the tragedy that you are going through and our hearts have ached tremendously for you and your families since the day we heard the devastating news. The service today was honestly so moving and it truly was a celebration of your precious children. They lit up a room with their smiles and are doing the same up in Heaven. You are both tremendous spiritual inspirations. We continue to pray for Crystals recovery and healing for all. May your memories of Parker and Haley and God’s love comfort you through these unbearable times! Maureen, Jeff & Calleigh Christensen

Parker and Haley are two of the most beautiful children I’ve ever seen. What an amazing tribute. My heart goes out to you, and my prayers are with you both. May the Lord continue to be your refuge and your rock. Margo Mizell

beautiful-you are both amazing and such inspirations to me-what a strong faith in the lord!!!GOD BLESS AND KEEP YOU!!!!

I do not know you well – I have only met Craig once through business; however, I have thought about your family every day since I heard of the tragic loss of your beautiful children. Our family is praying for you and each night we will say a prayer for Parker and Haley. We are in awe of you for the strength and courage that you have demonstrated. Thank you for sharing this breathtaking tribute to Parker and Haley with us. I watched the entire show through three times and appreciated it more each time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you always.

I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers and thoughts. The tribute to parker and haley was so beautiful.

What a awesome tribute to you children. They will be missed. Our family is praying for you and each night we say a prayer for Parker, Haley, Mrs. Crystal, and Mr. Craig. Our little boy Tyler always says he will see Mrs. Crystal at school and that he wants to give her a hug. Your faith in God and your love for each other is so strong that nothing will bring either of them down. Your children will never be forgotten, not only for the lives they touched but the incredible smiles they brought to any room.

I’m sorry for you. And I will be praying for you everyday. I know God is with you.

That was so beautiful, you can tell they were everything to you and crystal and I dont think I have ever seen a more photogenic family. I haven’t seen you or Crystal since highschool, but I wanted to let you know you are in my family’s thoughts and prayers. I am sure that your faith in the Lord will keep you strong. Much Love to you and Crystal….

Craig,
I hope all is well. I just wanted you to know that this memorial is absolutely beautiful. I am praying for you and Crystal daily. Earth has no sorrow that Heaven can not heal. I get joy in knowing that your beautiful children are in Heaven with Jesus. We all look forward to seeing them again one day. Please contact me if you need anything. The last time we talked, i told you that i was leaving First Citizens Bank. Well, i am staying with the company. I will be working at the Polo Rd. Branch. Thanks so much for all your prayers for me. My number is 803-466-9683.

You don’t know me, but I saw the tribute and just wanted to say that I am so sorry for your lose. I have a 6 month old of my own and know that my world would be shattered if something like this happened to me. I pray for you and know that God will help you through this terrible time.

I could barely make it thru this video!!It is so beautiful!! I cant imagine the hurt and pain…i pass the accident scene daily and my eyes fill with tears!I send my wishes and sympathy from myself and my two daughters!

God gave you his ANGELS for loving and you obviously did it wonderfully well ~ you can see so much in the beautiful pictures. We Christian Friends in Michigan are all praying and holding you in our hearts!!

It is weird that I saw this today because something happened to me that I could not understand until God prompted my Spirit to reveal to me a way of how HE ALONE works…

I am a waitress as Mi Tierra Cafe here in San Antonio, Texas. I am orginally from Columbia, South Carolina and graduated from Lower Richland High School. I am a single mom of a 2 year old. I have lived here in San Antonio for 12 years already…

Today, July 15, 2009..A family sat in my section whom were very sullen and yet they were trying to keep their spirits up by talking and laughing. You could see in there eyes that they were trying to make the best of a bad situation.

I waited on them and started to talk to them. This was about 3:30 in the afternoon. Come to find out that there was a newborn baby that was born the night before (born full term) Half brain dead, no kidneys and a whole in the heart not expected to live in the Santa Rosa Children’s Hospital across the street. (Which is one of the leading facilities in Children’s Pediatrics in the Nation…)

Halfway through the meal the grandmother of the baby gets a phone call saying that the heartbeat was slowing. She gets up to leave…I am starting to cry as I am writing this letter to you, but it is on my heart to share and obediant to the Spirit I must be…

The family is anxious to get back to the hospital, but finishes their meal in a hurry. I feel prompted to go pray for the family in the NICU at the hospital. I get there after work (5:15 pm) and the family is waiting in the lobby of the NICU…The nurse allows me to go back.

I share with them the story of my son: whom, knowing I was going to be a single mom at the time of pregnancy, did not want at that time. I was praying for God to take my son from me…OH HOW GLORIOUS AND GOOD GOD IS…You see…My pastor’s lost their son in ’06 during Thanksgiving Weekend. He and I were the same age and good friends. After not talking to his mother for many years…that was the year the reconciled through after years of prayer. I was 3 months pregnant when I JUST found out about his death…(Please bare with me….) I was 28 at the time…Now I am 31…My Pastor’s son was 28 when he died. He was a truck driver and he was driving through Colorado and the road had black ice on it…He was not wereing his seatbelt. The truck slipped and jackknifed…He died on impact that Thanksgiving weekend…

A few months later…I am in the hospital giving birth to my son when my Pastor’s Wife called to help me pick a name for him…I thought to myself…I already had Jeremiah picked out, which means “To Be Heard By God.” My Pastor’s sons’ name was Matthew and in memory of his I called my son Matthew Jeremiah…Now mind you…In the beginning I did not want my son out of fear of becoming a single mom with no support..>Espically since my family is still in South Carolina..(I am not writing this for pity parties BUT ONLY to bring GLORY AND HONOR to GOD’S HOLY NAME!!)

You see: God has a funny way of turning the bad around for the good…Well…a few months later a friend looked up the name Matthew on the Internet for the meaning. Matthew: A Gift from God…Jeremiah…To be heard by God…GOD HEARD MY PRAYER AND GAVE ME A GIFT…You see God used Matthew to change my life to bring me closer to HIM…My son just turned 2 on June 13 and I could not see my life without him…

So you see…I used this testimony to minister to the family in the lobby today before I prayed for them…These people were complete and total strangers…I did not know them and they did not know me…Yes…I felt weird..but I also felt the Lord with me..prompting me…You see…This was the message: GOD TURNS THE BAD AROUND FOR THE GOOD OF THOSE WHO LOVE HIM AND HAVE BEEN CALLED ACCORDING TO HIS PURPOSES…ROMANS 8:28…

After we prayed…The 22 year old mother was wheeled in with her young husband..>They had in hand their first child..already passed from this world to God’s loving care…in order for the fmaily to say their first and last goodbyes…You see..this baby was not even 24 hours old yet…and she was born full term…Her name: Brianna Faith…

I prayed for the mother…Luckily the family was saved..The grandmother pulled me aside and told me she relied upon the promises of God and KNEW that she would see her granddaughter in heaven again…OH HOW WONDERFUL GOD REALLY IS!!!TO HIS NAME BE THE GLORY>>>>

As I walked out of the NICU to enter the elevator to go home to my son…The Lord revealed to me WHY HE had me pray for that family…You see as Christians…we know that God is with us during the hardest part of our lives…During this time…God told me: I used you to remind my children that even during their hardest moments of pain and suffering I AM STILL WITH THEM!!! I Will comfort them…You see…Right now as you are going through all of this…Be comforted in knowing that GOD IS STILL WITH YOU>>>I think you see that in all the comments and everything going on…

YOu see for that fmaily…God showed HIMSELF through a complete stranger willing to be obediant to go pray them in one of their greatest time of need…And so it is with you..God Will Turn the Bad Around for the good of those who love him and have been called according to HIS PURPOSES!!!

Be encouraged..>HAng on to HIS PROMISES AND NEVER LET GO!!!

It is okay to yell at God and ask HIM why…Trust me…I have done it PLENTY OF TIMES>…AND you know what…I feel closer to HIM during those times…Does not the bible say that he knows what we are going to ask before we even ask and that we are formed in HIS imagine…Okay…If he created us and knows that we are NOT perfect…so how much more is it okay to be human with him..IT’s OKAY!!! Go for it…Scream at Him!!Yell at Him!!!Trust me…He’s a BIG GOD!!He can take it…Doesn’t mean He will love us any less…No He see’s your pain…The bible says He loves a broken and contrite heart..>That is one HE does not despise..That weeping may come at night but joy cometh in the morning…I am praying for you…I hope to hear from you soon enough…God bless…Michea Robinson…San Antonio, Texas

i first heard your story on the local news, and i thought, this is tragic; two small children, so young, and so innocent. and today i was on the internet and a link came up that read, “in memory of parker and haley” and a picture of the two them came up with it. my heart melted as i put these precious faces to that story that i had heard earlier. i clicked on “tribute to parker and haley” created by their father. once it began and i put faces to these names and i see the family in this story. it was very hard to watch as a mother of two (a boy and a girl).as my heart ached for the both of you, i could not help but to put my self in your shoes and i thought i am not that strong, i would not survive if this happened to me. as i continued to think about it after watching it, i began to think of how great God’s love is and the promises He makes to us. although, we are not always promised another day here on this earth, we are however, promised eternity more perfect than we could even imagine. with this said, always remember God’s love for you and what he promises, and though sometimes you may feel as if you will not survive this or that you can’t go on here with out them; remember you have to precious angels that are in heaven watching over their mommy and daddy. so from one parent to another parent thank you so much for sharing this tribute to your beautiful children with me. it helped to remember that we are not always promised tomorrow and that you should make the most of each moment you get here. i will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.

My heart goes out to you both and all of your families.

As a mother who also lost one of her children, I especially can relate to your grieving and devastation. Things I know that helped me are:

#1. Depend heavily on God to help you. Sometimes, I just got so tired from crying and greiving, I would just pray to God to please give me a temporary repreave and he did. On my sons tombstone, I put the poem

“And think of him as living in the hearts of those he touch,
For nothing loved is ever lost, and he was loved so much.”

#2. At Richland Memorial Hospital, there is a Berievement group called “Bridging the Bereavement Gap” head by Sue Heiney(sp)… It is free and worth MILLIONS.
#3. There is a book named “Good Grieving” I want to say the author is Bob Dietz but I am not positive. It was a long time ago. It explained to me what was happening with me throughout the process. The book gave me sound advice about options I would have in a variety of situations.

I really needed people to talk with who knew how I felt. Thank God someone wrote me and told me I could call them anytime. I offer to you the same…. I would love to talk with you and help you out in anyway I can…

May God keep you in his arms and love….

Beverly and Tommy Bouknight.
Irmo, SC

Craig & Crystal~

I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers every moment of every day. This is the most beautiful tribute I have ever seen to your precious angels! God our Lord will carry you through and Parker & Haley will embrace you throughout this journey.

God Bless,
Melissa

What a beautiful tribute to your precious children. Your family has and will continue to be in my prayers. My heart goes out to you at this most difficult time in your life. Hold on to your faith in God. He will always be there to help you. Know that your precious little ones are in his arms. There are so many people praying for you, just know there are so many people who love you and care for you. When the wind blows, just know that Parker and Haley are blowing you kisses.

Hey I don’t kow you Craig and Crystal, but I am praying for you and your family during this time of bereavement that our Lord and savior will continue to comfort you as you draw nearer unto him. May the love and peace of God be with you always!

There are no words really. I don’t know what I could say to comfort you in this horrible time of pain. I don’t even know you but since I heard of your tragedy you and your family have been in my prayers. I pray that God will help heal your pain and comfort you. This has to be the hardest thing a person can go through and your faith is definitely pulling you through. God is good.

Your children are beautiful. It sounds like I can refer to y’all as my brother and sister in Christ, and I pray that the God of all comfort will give you much peace during this heart-wrenching journey. I lost my Dad to cancer two years ago, but He has been with our Heavenly Father since then. There is NOthing that can be said by others [including myself] that will fill the void, but I pray that you will seek Him moment-by-moment…clutching to Him to lead you through.

My heart went out the day I heard of this and you continue to be in my thoughts. God has two beautiful angels in heaven with him. After losing a son at birth, I can say this. We may never understand why, but we can pray for God to grant us peace and acceptance. I also know that our time on this earth is but a blink of an eye compared to the time we will spend with our God in heaven. May God be with you as you continue to heal.

I am so sorry for your loss. After watching your slide show I feel like I know you and your beautiful children. I have had a tough day today w/ my 5 yr old twins….you have made me hug them tighter today I thank you for that. You are in my prayers.

I feel so sorry for your family. I can’t imagine how sad it is without them. My best friend told me what happened. You might know her because she goes to Chapin Baptist Church for day care her name is Sydney Jones. She said she saw your children every day.

My thoughts and prays are with you and your family’s. God may have taken them home to be with him but you will alway have the memorys of your beautiful baby’s Parker and Haley’s.

God Bless All of You,
Mary Coltrane

my heart aches for you guys as you bear this tremendous grief. i’m a photo junkie and came across your site quite by accident, but tonight i am lifting up you, your wife and your precious babies in prayer. may God wrap his arms around you all, bless you with the strength and grace you need, and may He keep you there until you meet your Parker and Haley again in heaven.

Dear Crystal & Craig,I can not express how very sorry I am for the loss of your precious babies, Parker & Haley.I am so deeply touched by your beautiful tribute. Craig, our daughter Ashley works with your mother Trish & loves her so very much. She has kept us up on Crystal’s physical recovery. We have your entire family in our thoughts & prayers. My God bless & keep you all in his loving arms.

What a beautiful tribute to your precious angels. I am so lucky to have met you both and to be surrounded by such strong individuals. My heart goes out to you both. It is true that He may never give us anything we can’t handle, and for this gift that you have taught me, I will be forever thankful. May God bless you both!!!

May God bless both Craig and Crystal with the strength to carry on after this incredible tradegy. I can see from your slide show that both of your children have the soul’s of angels that radiates from their eyes. I’m blessed with two of my own children who have that same look in their eyes and I know the Great Lord has blessed us with angels. God must have a higher mission for both of your angels and I pray for the emotional, physical and spiritual healing for Craig and Crystal.

I was told about your family by a friend of mine who lives in your area. I came here and watched this tribute to Parker and Haley and I cried. I have three daughters and they are the reason I get up in the morning. I can not imagine what you are going through and I wish, with all of my being, that I could fix this for you. Just know that there are people all around the world that have you in their thoughts and prayers.

WOW! WOW… I don’t know what to say. What a beautiful celebration of Parker and Haley! My heart goes out to you both. Let their memories warm your heart.

Prayers and Love Always,
Christy Case

I have recently been going through hard times in my life that have been trying my faith but your story and your strong relationship with christ has inspired me to seek a more personal relationship with Christ. I will pray for you and your wife each day. Your children truly are blessings for even now they are touching hearts and saving lives.

I am praying for y’all. I just read your story after seeing it posted on another photographer’s blog. I cannot imagine the pain y’all must be going through. Your faith in the Lord in the midst of this tragedy is so encouraging…I cannot even begin to tell you. Thank you for sharing your story and these beautiful images of your sweet angels.

You can plainly see that these children were truely loved and cherished just by looking at these pictures! As a parent my heart goes out to the family of these precious angels. I will think of you often and pray for you always!

Dear Craig and Crystal,

While I do not know you, please know that there is a family in TX praying for you.

This next week marks the one year passing of my youngest son Christian. He died in a drowning accident just shy of his 4th birthday. I just want to encourage you both to cling to one another and to the Lord! The death of a child is not something you get over, but you can and will get through it. And I promise that it does get a little less hard with each day.

We cry much but God knows each tear and shares our sorrow with us. If anyone knows what it’s like to be separated from his son, it’s God. I am so thankful that we can grieve with hope– the hope that comes only through Jesus Christ. I am looking forward to that glad reunion day!!! Where we will never be separated again– this time to be together for all eternity. If we thought our lives were perfect before, just think how much more awesome Heaven is going to be!

Your photo tribute to Parker and Haley is absolutely beautiful. What a tremendous blessing to have so many precious photos and family moments captured. They look like they were great buddies and that y’all truly enjoyed each other as a family.

I weep for you both. And I pray for you both. May God comfort you, give you strength and hold you close through this dark trial.

Love in Christ,
Marsha

I Thessalonians 4:13-18

May God Bless you and your family. Continuing to pray daily….

Seeing your tribute brought me to tears, actually I am sobbing. Your pictures are identical to the ones I have of my 2 kids – from the hospital, to the crib, feedings, playing, sleeping. In trying to put myself in your shoes, I am amazed by the grace of God.

Craig and Crystal ~

You both are such an inspiration to me. I can’t even begin to tell you how much. April of this year when Brad left us, I thought my whole life would end as I knew it. I tried everything, to win his heart back: God, Fireproof Book, you name it, I did it. The day I got the call about Parker and Haley, I realized then that my troubles where so small compared to both of yours and to Phillips. I prayed so hard that night that God could explain to me why BAD THINGS HAPPEN TO GOOD PEOPLE. The answer I got was “My child, this is not a bad thing” I was so angry with God, my seperation, the loss of your children and it seemed like one thing happened after another. To the point that I have strayed from God. I watched this video again today for some reason. I just wanted you both to know, that I promise to find my way back to God and forgive him for this struggle that I have had with loosing Brad. I just realized that even though he is gone from our house, he is still alive. Thank God for that. Parker and Haley are not. I’m so sorry for your loss, but It sure has reopened my eyes. I rededicated my life today. 6 months ago you could not have made me believe that I would blame God for the devils work. I did. But I have rededicated my life, thanks to you and Crystal. I love you both so much. An Crystals parents, I can’t even begin to tell you how much I love them and the whole family. I rejoice in the day that I get to see your two beautiful children again. Praise God for that! An I praise God for the strength that You and Crystal have shown me which inspired me to find my way back to our father in Heaven. Much Love, Bevan

It make me so sad for you both…I can just feel the emptiness you all must feel. I am so glad I got to see them at Crystals families house at Christmas. I remember talking to Crystal after the shock of hearing about the accident. I remember going and getting a drink for Haley…not knowing it would be the last time until we meet in heaven. I saw Parker running around. We are Tiffneys friends she tells how much loves those children and how much she misses them. Sorry we did not get to go to the Celebration. I had been sick for a while and I had to go to the hospital on that day I was having a hard time breathing, but my thought and prayers were with you all.

I just ran in to this did not stop to think about searching would not have know where to look but, in looking this popped up the children are so beautiful they seem to just love each other I so glad that since they had to go that went together it would have been so hard to have parted. So now they are playmates in heaven. Crystal’s Mother gave me the little blue card with their picture on it…looks like they are looking down from heaven. My girls Krystal, Sarah, and Sabrina is still talking about their hurt over the Children and being able to have seen them makes them have good memories of them…our prayers or for Crystals recovery and Craigs strengh to be there for her. Love in Christ Donnie

“Life is your art. An open, aware heart is your camera. A oneness with your world is your film. Your bright eyes and easy smile is your museum.” ~ Ansel Adams

The courage you have shared with us is our gift. To allow us too see within your pain and sorrow the beauty and spirit of life that is, and alway will be there is our blessing. You have beautiful children. I can see heaven in their eyes.

My heart breaks for you and your wife. My husband and I have lost a daughter at the age of 7. She was born with heart problems and we were told she would never live a day more less a week. By the glory of God she was here with us for 7 years. Her birthday is Oct.13th and it has been 13 years from her passing.
My husband and I was gave this web site from a friend Brad Henry we sat and just cryed like babies as we looked at your photos of your wonderful children. We have had diffrent things happen to us but with the same outcome…the lost of a child…I will never say I know how you feel, I will say that we are here to talk to if you need it. we did put in our e-mail for you.I/we will pray for you both every day and hope you can some day find the peace that a parent looks for after the lost of a child.

Craig, I had no idea until recently about your tragedy. I cannot imagine the loss you must feel. Your children shine with love, and you can tell how much joy ya’ll brought to them and they to you! Your situation has saddened me in a way I cannot put into words and I pray for you and Crystal with my children and husband every night. Please know that we are here for you always! With love, Shannon Beckham Berley & family

I was on Facebook and saw where Shawna Criminger said to go to see her children’s pictures. I had no idea what was to come. I saw the pictures, then saw the pictures of Haley and Parker. I wondered what happened to these children. I have been crying now for 2 hours reading all the comments and then I went to Caring Bridge and found the story. What a mighty God we serve! So glad Crystal is doing better….those children…so beautiful and sweet…I guess the only way you can go on is with God’s help…
You can tell you loved and still love you children very much…somtimes we ask why? only God knows why…and when…
I just know they are happier than we are…for they are Sheltered In The Arms of God…God Bless you both and give you the strength you need to face each day…my prayers and thoughts are with you both…..Connie

What beautiful children, and what precious memories you have. I lost my adult daughter, April on October 14, 2009. The two of you have been an inspiration to me. I am humbled by your faith, and have followed your story since last summer. I know that my daughter, like your precious little ones, is in the presence of God. I feel blessed to have been her mother and look forward to the day that I will see her again in Heaven. May God bless you. Thank you for sharing your story and the moving tribute to Haley and Parker.

Very Beautiful and Loving video! Your love for the children showed in all of the pictures. I think of you often. You two are truely an inspiration to God’s love. May you be blessed.

Parker and Haley, you are beautiful children and are missed dearly. You have touched the hearts and lives of so many people, including ones you never met. Although deeply saddened and heartbroken by this unfair tragedy, both of you are helping so many appreciate and be graciously thankful each day for what is really important and what really matters in our lives. Both of you and your mom and dad will forever be in our daily thoughts and prayers. Take care of each other together and help your mom and dad until they can see you again.

We have never met, however I think of your family often and my prayers are with you. I thank you for sharing your children with us. You have shown incredible faith during this time of anguish. You are amazing people and I wish you the Happiest Holidays possible.

What a wonderful tribute to your precious children. I’ve seen it several times and never tire of looking at it. It’s just too wonderful for words. I see your love in every picture and know Haley and Parker felt every bit of it. If all children could be so blessed to have parents like yourselves. What great memories you have made that will last you a lifetime here on earth till you are with Haley & Parker again one day. I thank God for you both and the living testimony of God’s grace you are to so many. May God continue to uphold you in the days ahead and give you all that you need to press on. Love and many prayers.

craig that is so beautiful!i love parker and haley so much and i just want you to know that i am in constant prayer.i love the fact that you and crystal have so much faith in god which is what is getting you through this.parker and haley are in better place now and jesus loves them and i know there laughing and playing up in heaven.love always sydney jones.

Hi Craig! Stopped by to check out your work before the upcoming class! Beautiful portfolio! So sorry to hear about your loss but glad to hear that you look above for strength. I can’t begin to imagine what you and your wife may be going through but as you can see from the many comments above, you both are loved and in the prayers of so many. Stay strong and I look forward to meeting you!

Craig and Crystal, this is Kelli from First Citizens. I worked with Craig several years ago there. I just heard this news today when I bumped into Ms. CiCi. I am so sorry for what you guys are going through. My heart goes out to you both. Your children are beautiful, and it is easy to see that you have a loving family, and that they loved each other so much. I cannot imagine what you have had to go through, but stay strong, you will make it.

Craig and Crystal,

You two have been my inspiration. The way you have glorified God even in this storm of life, is truly amazing. I love you both and look forward to reuniting with Parker and Haley in Heaven.

I considered it an honor to coordinate the fundraiser and motorcycle ride at Chapin Baptist Church along with Jim Schafer. I was amazed at how God opened the hearts of so many who contributed, even Sysco Foods who provided the food free of charge. We had motorcyclists from all over South Carolina and contributions online from so many parts of the United States.

When I first heard of the terrible tragedy, I looked for a way to help you out and I came up with the idea of cutting your lawn. I was crying as I cut the back yard, but I too know that God’s will is perfect and He wanted Parker and Haley to be with him in Heaven.

Love you both. God bless you as you look forward to Round 3 in September. If there is anything I can do for you, please feel free to let me know.

Keep praising God in this storm for He will never leave you nor forsake you.

Tim Porter

Colin, you are so photogenic! The pictures are great! They really capture you – and that gorgeous smile too! Can’t pick a favorite!

Recently my Uncle Dave and Stephen told me about what had happened. I just stumbled upon your facebook page tonight and started reading your blog. I tried to watch your wonderfully created tribute to those precious little ones and was moved to a hard cry. I started praying blessings over you and your wife and that God would meet you right where you need Him to meet you both.

My heart weeps for you.

In His love,
Jessica Heath Wray

Thank you for sharing the pictures of your sweet little blessings.
It is obvious that they loved each other and that they were and are loved by you. My heart goes out to you. Thank you again for sharing.

With tears streaming down my face I can’t imagine how hard this past year has been for you. I watched your blog and am amazed at what a full life your precious children had. They were lucky to have such great parents and what a treasure for you to have known them. They were best buddies and had such great life experiences because of great parents…it shows in all the priceless pictures you took! Enjoy your new baby!!!!!

Good stuff…..but where is the soccer ball

God must have needed to beautiful angels! They are beautiful children and you can see the happiness and love in your family. Being a parent and a grandparent makes it even harder to watch this beautiful slide show. May God give you the strength you need to face each day and may he give you a peace that only he can give. I will keep both of you in my prayers.

Madeline Welsh’s grandmother, Janet Barrineau

I only just happened upon your tragic loss, 1-1/2 years ago. The love of our Lord is shown through the incredible support and prayers of the amazing community in which we live. I know it played an important role in our surviving the loss of our 16 year old son, Grant, 4 years ago in Irmo. I hope you are finding a footing in a re-defined world and that the grace of God will continue to show itself through the love of neighbors and friends.

I am truly sorry for your loss. But there is no doubt in my mind that God had two lovley angels watching over your family. I might not know you but this story has really blessed me in so many ways. They are so preciuos! <3 I came to your website because i know Ms. Fore she used to help my high school coach Mark Bedenbaugh coach cross country. I hope your family has continued to keep your faith in God and keep your heads up. God bless yall all! <3

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Beautiful video… I stumbled accross it completely randomly and have no idea what dragged me to it.. I lost my 17 Month old Daughter Tayla 2 years ago yesterday… Love your video your sooo lucky to have so many beautiful memories and pictures of your beautiful children.

Watching your video has made me realise that i am not alone and that i am not the only person that has had to go through this nor will i be the last unfortunately. Though i do not know you and i live on the other side of the world i feel for you both sooo much!! Stay Strong and Thank you you have made something sooo painful somewhat more understood

Thankyou

Matt

They are beautiful Craig! Love the slideshow! God Bless!

Oh Craig and Crystal, ya’ll are such a stunningly beautiful family!! Your children are wonderfully happy and inspiring. They are such incredibly photogenic little angels. The Columbia community is so blessed to have a family like ya’ll to set such an outstanding example as people and a family as a whole. Little Ellington is quite the lucky little girl. I love you guys so much!!

I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers forever and ever!

Crystal and Craig,
Thank you so much for sharing this website with me. Parker and Haley are beautiful. I can’t even begin to imagine how difficult this has been for you. I feel so blessed to have met you and to have shared in your post partum care. I hope you are recovering well. Again thank you. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Thank you so much for sharing the photos of your beautiful children! What a testament you are to God’s grace and mercy! Also, thank you for reminding me that my children are not my own, they are on loan from God and He can give and take away whenever He sees fit. My mom moved in with Jesus in October of 2002 while I was pregnant with my first child. She never met any of my three but I can guarantee you she met your two at the gate and is loving on them while they all worship the Living God. Thank you again for sharing your story, your pain, and most of all your faith.

Hi Crystal, Craig and little Ellington-I had the pleasure of meeting you all today during a doctor’s visit at Palmetto Health for Ellington, who is such a sweet, smart bundle of joy. It is days like today when I am certain that the Lord put such a Godly family in front of me. I am sorry for the loss of Parker and Haley, who are beautiful, beautiful gifts, but also know they are in the hands of the Lord now and what could be better than that? Thank you for sharing your website with me and allowing me to help Ellington. I pray for you all and will ask the good Lord to continue to place his hand over y’all as you continue to walk strongly with Him.

i miss them sooooo much you are so blessed to have been blessed with two more beautiful angles